Controlling a man

For thousands of years, women have controlled men through their libidos whether they realize it or not. Some know it and refuse to acknowledge it. But that fact is, we all do it at one time or another. So why are so many women shocked when their partner indicates that he would like her to take charge of their marriage? I don't get it. Maybe they like controlling things without having to take responsibility for it. I mean, if you convince your partner to buy you a new car, it wasn't “your” decision, it was his. Right?

Com'on Ladies, admit that you use your sexual power over your guy to get what you want and don't be afraid to let him know who is in charge. Why pussy-foot around it? He probably enjoys being manipulated in that way, anyway. So why not go ahead and make it official? Tell him that you want be in charge and that he is going to go along with it or else. What's the “or else” you may ask. Sex, of course. You know, and I know, he will do anything to get more sex. So don't be afraid to use it. If he likes it, he won't fight you on it. If he doesn't, he will get used to it.

Sex is one of the most important things in life for men. It's a fact of life. It's the way they were designed. I talked about this in both of my books. Men are, by design, sexually oriented beings. They will, if given the chance, beg, plead, hound, and cajole you to death to get more sex. That's why a woman must learn how to control all that.

Women, on the other hand, don't normally want sex nearly as often as men. Not, that is, until they discover how much fun they can have controlling a man with it. Before I discovered my “inner Mistress,” I hated the fact that all men ever think about (it seemed) was sex. But once I learned how to use that to my own advantage, I couldn't get enough myself. Why? Because I discovered just how much fun it can be.

Ladies, if you are still at that point where you get tired of being hounded everyday for more and more sexual activity, then you have not yet figured out how to have fun with it. Think about it... Don't you just hate trying to find ways of telling your partner that you just don't want to do it right now? Don't you just wish you could do or say something that would make him stop begging all the time?

Try taking control. You don't have to give in to his desires. Instead of you having to take the time to get him all turned on (as if he weren't already) and then let him poke you for thirty seconds to relieve his desires, try something different. The next time he starts his routine “hint dropping” that he needs sex, take control. Tell him that he can have all the sex he wants if he will do exactly what you tell him to do.