Male Obedience Training

Orgasm control is an important part of your man's training in a female led relationship. When he truly wants a release but is not allowed, a part of him surrenders to your authority more and more. He will be denied an orgasm by intercourse, not even masturbating whereas he will keep providing you regular orgasms using his tongue.

This only occurs however when there is increased sexual tension without it resulting in his orgasm. That is why I consider teasing and denial an important part of male obedience training.

Of course, when you want it, a tease session can always end up with him performing oral service. There is something special about guiding his lips to the right spot with him knowing it means no orgasm.  Sometimes you can hear a sigh as his lips touch yours and he knows he has no hope of an orgasm.

It is not advisable however to keep him denied forever and an occasional "release" is sometimes needed for medical and/or emotional reasons.  When you allow your man an orgasm, there is some part of him that also feels he is being released from your control. This is alright since being free gives him the chance to return and willingly come back "home" to your loving guidance. This allows him the time to understand just how much he needs your leadership. However, we don't want him to wander too far or for too long.

For a wife practicing male obedience training, you may feel that he is less obedient after orgasm. However, there are some methods to help shorten that window between when you "release" him and when he is back under your wing.

Having him clean up after his orgasm is an important part of his training. First, it brings him back to an obedient mindset just moments after he is "released". It is also quite healthy for him and we should always try to keep him healthy. I prefer to avoid using vulgar terms like "creampie eating" and prefer instead to have him thinking of it as a respectful act of cleaning my yoni. I also make him understand that he is not "eating his cum" but consuming the juices of our lovemaking. After all, my yoni is not a cum dispenser but the very object of his adoration.

The other day I did something I very rarely do. I let my husband have a full orgasm and did not make him clean it up. I noticed a very different behavior in him as he took much longer to get back to his normal obedient self.  I allowed him his little "vacation" but on the second day, I was ready for his return and soon he was back to his normal routine.

If you have not already introduced your man to this new post orgasm responsibility, you can ease him into it slowly. Soon he will consider it a normal act. One idea is to have him "finish" your orgasm with his mouth, after he reached his own. Have him start by just licking your clitoris. After a few times, you can move him down in the heat of the act.

Sometimes, he needs a little time off, but when you want to bring him back, make sure he understands he is returning. If you have followed the Gentle Seductress method of male obedience training, you know that partial hypnotic suggestion is part of the program. This means that your use of trigger words like "my good boy" have a way to reach into him and bring him back. I would not use these right away, but after a while, a few well placed words will have him eating out of your hands again.